со кротце, со благо и со малко кютек

Etymology
Catch-phrase of the early 20th-century Bulgarian Prime Minister Andrej Ljapčev in his native West Macedonian dialect (nowadays, part of Macedonian).

Phrase

 * 1)  with calmness, with gentleness, and with a little brawling
 * → [to conduct oneself] with tact and consideration but [when that does not work] to fight for your beliefs