Citations:allo

Adjective: "(informal) allosexual and/or alloromantic"

 * 2019, Amy Rose Capetta, The Lost Coast, page 61:
 * "She is fine, at least for now," Lelia says with a shrug. "And while we're here, I'm not allo either."
 * I silently thank the internet for teaching me that allosexual is one end of yet enother spectrum, with asexual at the other.
 * 2020, Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex, page 83:
 * Asking a person to work on themself to have more sex seems natural and intuitive, but imagine asking the allo partner to be celibate.
 * 2020, Shloka Gidwani & Lauren Leese, "Taylor Swift needs to calm down with performative activism", Mount Holyoke News (Mount Holyoke College, South Hadley, MA), 17 September 2020, page 5:
 * It must be noted that it's not always easy to critique seemingly allo, cisgender, heterosexual artists' explorations of LGBTQ+ issues.
 * 2021, Izzy, "Live While We're Young: Aromantic Frienships, Youth and Futures", CAMP Magazine (University of Melbourne), Volume 4 (2021), page 20:
 * However, being aro adds another layer of urgency. As we get older, a lot of our monogamous allo friends will find their life partner, get married, and have kids.
 * 2021, anonymous, quoted in "Questions Of The Month", AVENues Newsletters, July-September 2021, pages 14-15:
 * I would say that it'd help so much if the ace characters would be explicitly acknowledged by the creators, but this doesn't always fix things. In the case of Jughead Jones, his asexuality and aromanticism were explicitly stated, but that didn't stop people from completely disregarding it, to the point where most fanart and fanfiction of him makes him allo.
 * 2022, "LGBTQ+ Glossary", LGBTQ+ Education Pack (University for the Creative Arts, Farnham, England), page 3:
 * Allo people experience sexual and romantic attraction and do not identify as on the ace or aro spectrum.

Noun: "(informal) one who is allosexual and/or alloromantic"

 * 2020, Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex, page 108:
 * Allos might feel infatuated with a new acquaintance or be more attached to their best friend than to any romantic partner, yet they can deny the possibility of romantic feeling because of the lack of sexual attraction. Allos can wave their hand and say, "There are people I want to sleep with, and I don't want to sleep with you, so it's only platonic."
 * 2020, Beatrix Elizabeth Livesey-Stephens, "ABDN Case's Asexual Consent Workshop", AVENues Newsletter, July-September 2020, page 6:
 * Asexuality rightfully places a lot of importance on consent due to a lack of sexual attraction, but I think the discrepancy in the importance of consent between aces and allos is bigger than it should be.
 * 2021, "Will", quoted in "Member Highlight: Multi-Member Question And Answer", AVENues Newsletter, January-March 2021, page 19:
 * Then maybe asexuals wouldn't face negative responses ("You're a late bloomer" or You haven't met the right person" etc.) when they come out to allos.
 * 2021, anonymous, quoted in "Questions Of The Month", AVENues Newsletter, July-September 2021, page 14:
 * More aces feeling comfortable with expressing themselves and allos learning not to be combative and aphobic.
 * 2021, Diana, quoted in Joana Castañon de Carvalho, "Negotiating Demisexual Identities: Brazilian Women's Narratives on Demisexuality", thesis submitted to Utrecht University, page 27:
 * Diana: I'm 26 years old, I was born in 94, and it bothers me that this has to be an issue. In what sense. In the sense that like every time we talk about asexuality, demisexuality... asexuals also have sex... it bothers me, having to- like, still needing to put sex as a central issue in these livings. Which are livings that are not guided by sex. Like @. Guys, just don't- fuck it what allos think, if they think it's weird that you have sex, that you don't have sex. Or for what reasons you decide to have sex or not, right?
 * 2021, Adam Key, "The Silent A: A Critical Soundtrack of Asexuality", Journal of Autoethnography, Volume 2, Issue 4, Fall 2021:
 * , rather than from the perspective of “asexual people making sense out of being asexual in the context of a culture that is far from asexual friendly.” Part of why I’m writing this essay is to tell allos we exist, to make them aware of our struggle and our pain.