Citations:hate-fuck

Noun: "alternative form of hate fuck"

 * 1975 — Norman Dickens, Jack Nicholson: The Search for a Superstar, New American Library (1975), page 108:
 * And they have a lot of grass-is greener fantasies…. People that I don't like are not sexually attractive to me at all. I remember in my early twenties I had a few hate-fucks and they were groovy. But now now."
 * 2002 — Laura Sinagra, album review, Spin, March 2002, page 134:
 * and on "Fifth Ave. Crazy" is a boy/girl duet that squeezes out sparks like a consensual hate-fuck.
 * 2007 — Steve Chick, Psychic Confusion: The Sonic Youth Story, Omnibus Press (2009), ISBN 9780857120540, unnumbered page:
 * I think the most important thing was the attitude; she always wanted the music to sound like rough sex, like a hate-fuck.
 * 2008 — Tripp Millican, Stories for Boys, Lulu.com (2008), ISBN 9781435745551, page 30:
 * I want to have sex with her. Not even sex. I want to fuck her. A hate-fuck.
 * 2009 — Scott Pomfret & Scott Whittier, E-Male, Palari Publishing, ISBN 9781928662167, page 199:
 * A man could only hold on like this out of pity or pretend or something else that neither of them would allow themselves to think. You don't hold on after a hate-fuck.
 * 2010 — Cara McKenna, Backwoods, Ellora's Cave (2010), ISBN 9781419929441, page 85:
 * Whatever lube the condom came with would have to be enough—he wasn't about to let on that this was anything more than a hate-fuck to the man who had him so goddamn ripped up inside.
 * 2011 — Meghan Rowland & Chris Turner-Neal, The Misanthrope's Guide to Life: (Go Away!), F+W Media (2011), ISBN 9781440525087, page 110:
 * 2-for-1 drink specials and the woman's boundless ability to be disappointed by men ensure that by 10 P.M., the streets will be filled with furious ladies wobbling on their stilettos and looking for a hate-fuck.

Verb: "alternative form of hate fuck"

 * 1991 — Sean Costello, Captain Quad, E-reads/E-rights (2001), unnumbered page:
 * He wanted to hurt her. He wanted to punish her. He wanted to fuck her. Hate-fuck her.
 * 1995 — Amy Taubin, "Under His Thumb", in Debating Sexual Correctness: Pornography, Sexual Harassment, Date Rape, and the Politics of Sexual Equality (ed. Adele M. Stan), Delta (1995), ISBN 9780385313841, page 172:
 * He might even hate-fuck the Winona Ryder character once or twice when their relationship goes sour,
 * 2000 — Jennifer Baumgardner & Amy Richards, "Who's Afraid of Katie Roiphe", in Manifesta: Young Women, Feminism, and the Future, Farrah, Strauss, and Giroux (2000), ISBN 9780374526221, page 245:
 * Before that happened, he used to tell me that guys would talk about wanting to "hate-fuck" me. So I had this sense that there was considerable potential violence and aggression behind the desire I had been courting.
 * 2010 — Gregory Norris, You've Got Male, Ravenous Romance (2010), ISBN 9781607773269, page 158:
 * And just so you know, I hate-fucked you in my mind about an hour ago when I jerked off in the staff head."
 * 2010 — Gabe Rotter, The Human Bobby, Simon & Schuster (2010), ISBN 9781439168110, page 33:
 * "If she wasn't your wife I'd hate-fuck the shit outta her."
 * 2011 — Jaden Lane, If You Could Read My Mind, Xlibris (2011), ISBN 9781456855543, page 358:
 * "I wasn't going to hate-fuck you, because I don't hate you. I love you, but I just can't make love to you either."
 * 2012 — Marty Beckerman, The Heming Way: How to Unleash the Booze-Inhaling, Animal-Slaughtering, War-Glorifying, Hairy-Chested, Retro-Sexual Legend Within, Just Like Papa!, St. Martin's Press (2012), ISBN 9781250010605, page 166:
 * Zelda likewise blasted Hemingway as a "poseur," "pansy," and "professional he-man," but they might've wanted to hate-fuck each other.
 * 2012 — Liza Palmer, More Like Her, William Morrow (2012), ISBN 9780062101471, unnumbered page:
 * "What you need to do is just hate-fuck that Jeremy Hannon guy and th—"