Citations:kai-kai

kiki, (a person who is) neither butch nor femme

 * 2003, Diane Ayres, Other Girls, page 152: "She brought you here because it's the only place that's safe for kai-kai. Do you know what a &apos;kai-kai&apos; is, Lizbeth?" "It's spelled ' K-I-K-I ' actually. Some people say 'ki-ki,' meaning 'neither-nor.' AC/DC, you know, 'bisexual.'  ki-ki was a pejorative term meant to stigmatize a woman who didn't conform to the strict code of butch-femme.

sexual activity between drag queens

 * 2010 February, Michael Steck, "Michael vs Pandora: Round 1", in The Empty Closet, number 431, page 1:
 * Speaking of love, were there any hookups on RuPaul's Drag Race? A little kai kai, perhaps? (Kai Kai is a term that is used to talk about two drag queens having sexual relations.)
 * 2013 April, Frontiers, volume 31, issue 25, "For A Good Time, Call William", page 50:
 * William's parodies—including "The Vagina Song, "Chow Down," "Let's Have a Kai Kai," "Love You Like a Big Schlong" and, most recently, "Boy is a Bottom"—have proven to be prime examples of William's comedic abilities.
 * [in turn, the lyrics to the song are: "I'm gonna let you touch it. / Let's have a kai kai / (I'm taking off my thigh-highs) / Strip, turn, let's have a kai kai"]
 * 2020, Crystal Rasmussen, Tom Rasmussen, Diary of a Drag Queen:
 * But the other night with Ace marked my first kai kai, and it was in a toilet worse than that of a gay club. That's growth. Doing stuff in drag was not much different from doing stuff out of drag. All the parts work the same, and it's quite fun
 * Having sex in drag is popularly termed a kaikai. Derived from the term to kiki (verb): when two queers chat, laugh, giggle, and gossip. The kaikai takes that a step further and into fucking. It's never been presented to me as an