Talk:lap dance

Earliest Usenet uses via Google Groups: &mdash; Hippietrail 15:09, 12 Feb 2005 (UTC)
 * lap dancing: net.flame - 14 Nov 1983 by James R Carbin
 * (subject line) "LAP DANCING - PRIVATE ROOMS AVAILABLE"
 * (body) One of the first nightclubs that I saw had a sign out front (the lighted from behind type on a trailer with flashing lights around the border) which read, "LAP DANCING - PRIVATE ROOMS AVAILABLE."
 * But please could someone in Orlando tell me what lap dancing is?
 * lap dances (noun): rec.nude - 26 Feb 1990 by Eli Whit
 * Do they do table dances or lap dances?
 * lap dancers: rec.gambling - 31 Oct 1991 by Mark stantz
 * We need more lists of esoterica in the FAQ -- things like what places comp cigarettes to players, where the best shrimp cocktails are to be had, and which girls at the Palomino are preferred lap dancers.
 * Lap Dance: rec.gambling - 29 Mar 1993 by Blair P. Houghton
 * "Lap Dance?" Isn't that the thing you do when you knock a black chip off the table in a crowded downtown casino?
 * lapdancing: alt.sex.movies - 20 Jul 1993 by bill hatch
 * Playhouse Route 5 Waldorf Nude, lapdancing take left on Rt 5 where it splits from 301 - ~.5 mi. on left.
 * lap-danced: alt.sex.movies - 15 Sep 1993 by Anonypotent
 * When he finally did ask (he is a polite lad) she lap-danced in the finest manner possible (i.e., she appeared to be right into it).
 * lapdance (verb): alt.shenanigans - 8 Nov 1993 by Stafford, David A.
 * Any way, One guy was requested to lapdance for this girl.
 * lap dancer: alt.sex.strip-clubs - 12 Mar 1994 by AllPure Chemical Company
 * I am more of a watcher than a lap dancer, but I must say I was impressed by a trip last Friday to the O'Farrel Theater in SF.
 * lapdance (noun): tor.general - 24 Mar 1994 by Chris Blask
 * I'm sure we could find plenty of people who think the contact of a lapdance is extremely sensuous (and I wasn't kidding: I'm going to find out for myself so *someone* here can speak in first person [besides, I might like it ;-}]).
 * lapdances (noun): alt.sex.strip-clubs - 16 May 1994 by an92774
 * During lapdances girls were constantly grabbing my dick.
 * lapdancers: rec.arts.poems - 21 May 1994 by Wand
 * you said "sometimes lapdancers wear pearls"
 * lapdancer: alt.tv.saved-bell - 8 Sep 1994 by David Finan
 * Daily news announced today that Ms Berkley is going to appear in Joe Eszterhas' new movie "Showgirls" as a lapdancer who dreams of becoming a Vegas showgirl.
 * lap danceing: alt.sex.strip-clubs - 18 Mar 1995 by Sph644
 * Just think how many guys have sucked the same tit as you in the last hour of lap danceing.
 * lapdanced: rec.arts.books - 3 Oct 1995 by Joseph M Green
 * I liked the fantasy sequence in which whoever it was with the breasts of Muriel Hemingway lapdanced her way through the Western Canon.
 * lapdanceing: alt.sex.strip-clubs - 22 Feb 1997 by sleaf
 * Is there lapdanceing going on there (trying to find clubs in TO that don't do the lapdancing bit.)

Other senses, other senses of synonyms
In the USA:

There is such a thing as "pole dancing", "pole dancer" but no such thing as a "pole dance" in the context of a stripper dancing in a strip club using a fireman's pole in the center of the stage. If someone were to say "pole dance" it would be a reference to intercourse, and a pendant like me would correct them (even if it was humorous.)

Likewise, an "erotic dance" is a dance on a nightclub floor that is suggestive by adolecents fully clothed, but has nothing to do with an "erotic dancer" (stripper) nor "erotic dancing." (Strip club.)

Also: a "private dance" would be two octegenarians dancing in their own home on their 60th anniversary; a "private dancer" is a stripper, "private dancing" (especially in neon) indicates semi-private booths in a strip club.

--Connel MacKenzie 08:14, 13 Feb 2005 (UTC)