User talk:MissLeannB

I am going to talk about the many women in our society that are being treated like they are crazy or going there. A delicate lady is usually the prime target. Infidelity is the main reason a man will begin his gas-lighting behavior which I will explain in a moment, Acting like you are a stranger at first or just shutting you out. Telling you you are acting crazy and he doesn't understand why you are acting like this. You women know what I am talking about. Well there is a name for this behavior, Gas-Lighting. It is being done. It seems that your closest friends will even climb on board. Men or women but mostly egotistical men. I prefer to call them bully's. I was excited the first time I read about this and was even more excited when I was actually able to first hand confirm that this in fact is happening every where. The process of gas-lighting happens in stages At first you will be devastated that you are being treated in such a manner ,then convinced some how you are imagining things. Once you identify the situation it becomes apparent and obvious that you have a problem on your hands and you are not it. The Gaslight Effect happens over time - gradually - It is possible over time to get so beaten down you become so sure you might be going crazy. It has become so bad that you lost perspective of  the actual dynamic that this situation has become. and, often, by this time you are so deep into the Gaslight situation it has already taken your true self, the same strong - self you used to be is gone. In fact, your self esteem has been stripped from you. You no longer are even certain of what is real and what isn't, You are not  able to accurately identify when something is "off" with your partner. Most of all you lose your voice to state an opinion or discuss an issue with your them.