paenulam alicui scindo

Etymology
From, the accusative singular of + , the dative singular of  +. Literally “I tear apart someone's cloak”.

Verb

 * 1)  to press one strongly to stay
 * 2) * Letter 13, Cicero, Letters to Atticus, paragraph 33
 * sed ego ita egi ut non scinderem paenulam.
 * And indeed, I have gone so that the cloak is not ripped apart. (ie. so that I'm not forced to stay)