tenderqueer

Etymology
, as a play on.

Noun

 * 1)  An LGBT+ person with a gentle, sensitive, openly emotional disposition, particularly when cultivated as an insincere or self-serving affectation.
 * 2) * 2016, Sally Mulligan, "Turn A Look: Taurus", PQ Monthly, April/May 2016, page 21:
 * Carrying your comfort with you is protection for the sweetly sensitive bull. You're a tenderqueer of few words, and you always make them count.
 * 1) * 2017, Lindsay Nixon, "Fallon Simard – Monetized, But Agential, Bodies in Ghost Worlds", Esse, Number 91, Fall 2017, page 70:
 * Sad Boi extraordinaire, reproductive justice fighter and unabashed tenderqueer—Fallon Simard is a rare voice within Indigenous art.